Hudson has been really struggling with sleep for the past month. A friend recommended the book "Healthy Sleep, Happy Child" so we read that and decided to try the "cry it out" method since our method obviously wasn't working. I think we may have finally made a breakthrough as the last 2 nights it has
only taken him 2 hours to cry himself to sleep. Yes, that is a major accomplishment over the 4-6 hours he had been doing. We feel really bad letting him cry for that long but we don't know what else to do! We can rock him to sleep or stand over him in the crib and pat him and sing to him and he'll fall asleep, but the instant you lay him down or take a step away from the crib his eyes pop open, his legs start kicking and the crying starts.
So we have let him cry till 2 or 3 in the morning a few nights but the sad thing is we finally ended up going in and getting him because he wasn't going to sleep. One night I ended up holding him the rest of the night cause he was so worked up from crying for so long.
But the good news is the last 2 nights he has only cried for 2 hours - and we started turning music on in the living room so we can't hear him quite as well - so that helps. :)
But that's only the going to bed - naps or when he wakes up during the night, well, sometimes that's the whole thing over and over again...
We're worried he is making himself sick from getting so little sleep. So per the book's recommendations we only let him cry for the first nap of the day, then I hold him or lay down with him for the second nap so that we make sure he at least gets some sleep. But to me that is just confusing him more cause he wants to sleep like that all the time...But something has got to change cause this boy needs some sleep - so do his parents! He is getting about 8-9 hours of sleep at night and maybe 2 hours of napping a day - not anywhere close to the recommendations for a baby his age. And of course we are going to start traveling in a week and half for Christmas so any progress we have made by then will probably go right down the drain!
I am SO ready for the basement to be done. It has already been 2 weeks longer than they thought to get it finished and they still aren't done. They are getting close though. This time they really are - I keep saying that and then a week goes by and they still aren't done. But now they just have some touch up paint, clean up and carpet to lay. They think that will just take them one day and they'll be done tomorrow. I am anticipating that they
might be done by Wednesday... :) The whole house is so dusty from all the sheetrock, mudding and stuff from downstairs - I need to do a really good deep cleaning once I know there won't be any more mess! Plus the noise from down there doesn't help with Hudson's napping.
And because of Hudson's crazy sleeping I have been sticking pretty close to home to try to keep him on a schedule. Which means I have not been out to do any Christmas shopping yet! I finally got online and started buying some presents a few days ago when I realized Christmas was only 2 weeks away and I hadn't bought a single gift!
And one more thing - No, I have not received my new cable cord for the camera so I still can't download any pictures. And despite not sleeping, Hudson is still doing all sorts of cute things I have been taking pictures of to share with you. So hopefully I get it sometime next week so I can post some new pics. He's not crawling yet but as soon as the house gets cleaned up and the new carpet is down we are going to start focusing on lots of tummy time. He hasn't had much lately cause I don't want him down on the dirty floors!
And now I hear Hudson crying - that was 20 minutes. The book says it can't count as a nap if it isn't longer than 30. So technically he hasn't had a nap yet today- but that's the second time he has at least tried!